Our attitude shapes our environment – it’s the difference, to use a cliché, of seeing the glass as half full or half empty. Our outlook on life is the road map that guides the quality of our lives. A simple way to look at attitude is this: Attitude is the way we communicate how we’re feeling to other people.
Positive, optimistic people exude a favorable attitude that draws like-minded people toward them. It’s just natural to want to be around people who have an uplifting influence, who don’t pepper most conversations with negative remarks. When we are pessimistic and continually expect life to be negative, we put up a barrier to other people. And, the ones we attract are the grim reapers of the world. Those with nothing kind to say and those that think things are bad and that things are only going to get worse.
Attitude is shaped in our mind, it’s the way we look at things, circumstances, people...it’s our perspective. We’re in control of our perspective so we are in control of our attitude.
When things are going well, it’s much easier
to maintain a healthy outlook. The challenge comes when something happens to
test our positive perspective.
The
difference between a positive and negative person is the positive person knows
that she or he will bounce back, that whatever the situation, they will not be
bogged down in it forever.
Why is attitude
so important to delivering customer service?
Customer service super stars know that managing their attitude helps ensure they have a stellar performance. Super stars get on purpose and become committed to excelling at performing (just like actors in a movie or a play). They know their lines, they are dressed the part and are well-rehearsed. Even when life hands them a hard knock they act the part they are expected to play. In sports they call this "sometimes you have to play hurt". The game must go on .
Another thing customer service professionals, like bank tellers, new account representatives, and call center agents have learned is this - act your way into a new attitude.
- When you don't feel good, act like you do and you'll feel better.
- If your heart aches because of a broken or troubled relationship, kick up your acting a notch and you'll feel better.
- The next time your are suffering with disappointment or disillusionment, change your focus to what you have to be grateful for and you'll better.
What is the lesson in this? Go pro. Never forget that attitude is important to the quality of every aspect of your life. The pros know that you have to focus on both your attitude and your performance. If either one is in need of an adjustment, take full responsibility to change what you are thinking or what you are doing to get the results you are after. When need be, adjust both!
Still learning,
Honey